Have we lost the art of listening? #TEDTalk

As I watched this I wondered if listening needs to become a leadership imperative? As a communicator sound and sounds are essential to ‘what I do’ – listening and being present is just as important as the right words at the right time. TED is one of those gift boxes you uncover with delight, this one focuses on the gift of listening. It’s beautiful.

Communication Quotes – Fred Smith

Fred Smith passed away in 2007, he was 93. For many years beforehand and since Fred mentored me online through his website Breakfast With Fred.  Here are his best quotes on Communication. “Thanks” is more than courtesy – it is obligation. A perpetual learner is the best teacher. Avoid the authors who are meringue chefs. Better to be a participant in life than a reporter. Clarify your thoughts so that others may use them. Cliches are pre-thought expressions. Cliches may sharpen truth for better penetration. Fantasy’s function is to change reality. From the joy of learning comes the joy of sharing. God is pleased when we use scriptural verses in our defense against evil. Great ideas that become nothing more than interesting are little more than entertainment. I don’t have to agree with you to understand you. In 20 languages “be” and “do” are the same word. Invite your listeners to hear. Language is often a useful tool to conceal meaning. Only you can share your memories. Our vitality consists in the great themes of life and thought which have become woven into the fabric of our character, personality and actions. Purpose and plan are not synonyms. Speak to people … Continue reading →

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The Eight Questions Every Pastor Must Answer Before Next Year – Part 4: How is your message being received

Communication: How is Your Message Being Received? As a leader, it is so important to learn to hone your craft as a skilled communicator. While it is important to have a vision as discussed in an earlier Masterclass Action Guide, it is equally as important to be able to communicate that vision in a clear, continual and creative manner. Fear not George Bernard Shaw when he said “The problem with communication … is the illusion that it has been accomplished.” Hold yourself to the highest standard of communication possible. Communication is such a vital factor in leading well. One definition of communication as the“giving and receiving of information and ideas.” However, often times even the best leaders are lacking on one end of communication or the other. While some may be lacking in the listening department, others may be falling short when it comes to giving a clear, precise message. As a leader you need to become competent in both the giving AND the receiving aspects of communication. Master the art of influential oration as well as develop the humility of listening and responding, that is leadership in communication at it’s best. This action guide will continue to focus on … Continue reading →